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Topic: please help me
Posted By: lotrlvr04
Subject: please help me
Date Posted: September/15/2005 at 7:35pm
I've done something terrible and its all my fault. My parents would be extremely ashamed of me if they knew. They will find out sooner or later. I don't know what to do, I'm thinkng of running of away..but i have no place to go. I need help, i'm lost and desperate. I want to kill myself.

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The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way



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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September/16/2005 at 4:46am
Sholoin - Ok ok first of all we need to know exactly what happened. Secondly you need to calm yourself (say a prayer or something) everything will be fine.


Posted By: lotrlvr04
Date Posted: September/16/2005 at 5:16pm
i cheated on an assignment for school and was found out. As a consequence I was suspended from my university. I don't know what to do. I don't want to face my parents. They work so hard to make things nice for me and i do something so stupid and screw it all up and waste their money. my brother is in law school and they are so proud of him. All I do is drain their resources and cause them grief this is just the icing on the cake. I've never been better than mediocre at anythng, i don't want to cause my parents any more pain. I feel i need to remove myself from their lives so they don't have to deal with me anymore.

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The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way


Posted By: Bear and Wolf
Date Posted: September/17/2005 at 2:49am
its not the end of the world for you. if you have learned from what you've done then there is still a new begining in your furure. are you more sorry for cheating or that your parents will find out about it?
you will have to face your parents. i dont know your parents so i dont know how they will react, but its probaly better if you tell them humbly than if they find out by other means. dont make up any stories just tell them flat out what happened and that you have learned from it, if you have. many people have done worse things, im one of them. i know its hard to start but you just have to blurt it out like. i have to tell you something. it may take a little hard work but youll land on your feet aging. trust me from Experience. no matter how fast and far you run your problems can run faster and further. good luck to you and i wish you the best.   blessed be

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The bear has spoken, but the wolf had yet to beging.


Posted By: k_kid
Date Posted: September/17/2005 at 7:58am
thats great advise. i couldnt have said it any better.


Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: October/08/2005 at 10:29am
ABSOLUTELY DON'T, DO NOT, DO NOT KILL YOURSELF! I've done worst things than that, don't do it. it sounds like you're some sort of hippie, if that's the case haven't shrooms taught you anything?????


Posted By: cd27
Date Posted: October/12/2005 at 7:49am
you were only suspended right? tha's not that bad. anyways, just etllyour parents,you'll be surprised of how suportive they will be towardsyou. you're their kid! i have done some pretty bad things in my life and told tem that i did it, and they wre proud of me for being honest about it. in fact, if you tell them how sorry you and show them how bad it hurt you, they shouldn't have any roblem in trying to help you feel better.

cd


Posted By: beadbabe
Date Posted: November/13/2005 at 12:23pm
please do'nt kil your self , talk in out with some one perphaps a a trusted friend. or a pastor . its not worth it ending your young life .

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peace out ! whatever ! its all good karen kris .


Posted By: Jana
Date Posted: November/16/2005 at 1:46am
Good advice from Bear and Wolf.

Better to tell your parents than them finding out later via somebody else. Just be honest, you obviously regret doing it or you wouldn't be feeling bad about it now. People forgive easily when you are honest, trust me on that one!



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It is never crowded on the extra mile.


Posted By: cd27
Date Posted: November/21/2005 at 6:55am
Originally posted by Jana Jana wrote:

Good advice from Bear and Wolf.

Better to tell your parents than them finding out later via somebody else. Just be honest, you obviously regret doing it or you wouldn't be feeling bad about it now. People forgive easily when you are honest, trust me on that one!



lol..that's what i said ..yea, it's totally true. (i've done it on purpose SO many times-and it wrked)

cd


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If I call you dumb...refer to my avatar ^


Posted By: lynchi
Date Posted: November/27/2005 at 6:20am
I've been thru all this too so don't think it won't work for you. You can help yourself immensly by getting away from your own self or ego. Practice forgiving any and all who are in your life. Examine every thought for malice towards the other and correct it. I'm not religous. I call it advanced psychology. Prayer will help you. Ask for help from God and your true personal spiritual guides. Ask the same to help the other people in your life. Try hard not to indulge in sensual pleasures. In even the smallest situation with another person examine it to see what your motives are (to help or hurt). There is the positive and the negative approach to life. You choose. Keep in mind negative results may not manifest for some time but manifest they will. Make your choice. It's all about habit of mind and love towards others. You can reverse your mental habits. Abandon self gains. Just go with the tide of life. Deal with things when they come up. Stop persuing ego gains. Develop the habit of love towards even your enemies. Work at it. You don't have to perform acts towards them. Just make sure your thinking is right. Read Tao De Jing, teachings of Buddha, one liners from Jesus. They all talk about diminishing the self and letting life happen. Don't get sucked into church religon. It's all within. Not in going to church and worship. Talk little. Sleep little. Get a job if you don't have one. It can be rough till you get broken in. You can do it, you're no different. Get physically active. Run,walk,sports.



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